I think too many women nowadays feel like they owe it to a man to please them. If a man buys you dinner, you’re not obligated to sleep with him. You owe them nothing. Nothing, you hear me? You don’t have to say yes when they ask you out on a date and you don’t have to smile when they make a rude remark. Don’t just shrug it off when they are being disrespectful. Just don’t. Tell them to the shut the hell up or tell them to piss off. That doesn’t make you any less of a lady, it doesn’t shed off your class. If someone does something you don’t like, you make sure they know. You don’t owe it to any man or any one else for that matter to say yes or do something out of your comfort zone.

A Story A Day #189 - M.D.L

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